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Frequently Asked Questions

Q: I am a novice, where do I start? 

A: I love meeting and guiding novices into the wonderful world of kink and submission, but keep in mind your vetting process will take slightly longer. First, make sure you have thoroughly read over this page and looked over my website and Twitter. Then familiarize yourself with the proper etiquette in contacting a professional Dominatrix. There are two great resources I like to recommend. The first is an article by renowned Domina Esme Crane on, “How to Serve and Contact a Professional Dominatrix” and the second is a post by an experienced submissive and long time slave of my friend and colleague, Domina Akira, entitled “Rules of the Road”.  After you understand the do’s and don’ts, and have thoroughly read over my website, head over to my submission form. Be thoughtful and earnest in your reply. The more clear and comprehensive the request, the easier it will be to schedule your session.


Q: I submitted the session request form, what happens next? 

A: Now you wait. Patiently. For all new clients, there is a $50 application fee. This compensates me for the time it takes to vet you. Payment can be made through CashApp ($LGraceQ) or an Amazon e-gift card sent to After I read over your application and if it meets my standards, expect an email within 12-24 hours to set up a quick call so that I may discern more about you. Be ready to talk about your past experiences, current fantasies, and what you’re looking to get out of our time together.

*If you have provider references, a call may not be needed.


Q: I don't see where you list the activities you provide, where might I find that? 

A: You won't because I don't believe in providing a menu-like list of services/activities I'm willing to perform. My vetting process is so that those that I let into my presence are the select few that have expressed genuine desires of submission and with whom I feel I will have a strong connection with through kinky play. My introversion and strong intuition & empathy drive me to seek only the experiences that bring me the most joy and meaningful pleasure. I give my full attention to our time together and you are expected to do the same through your surrender and submission. 

Q: Dear Mistress, what are your boundaries?

A: Great question, dear sub! I thought you'd never ask. 

My boundaries include touching any part of my body without my permission, dominating me, using toys on me, whining/complaining, disclosing information about other providers, or prying about my personal life. Please respect my boundaries as I do yours. Brown showers, ruby showers, nude smothering, and any activity that is directly sexual, illegal, unsafe or non-consensual are out of the question. 

Q: What is your tribute?

A: $600 per hour. Special pricing for overnight and extended sessions, cuckolding scenes, and couples cuckolding experiences. 

*There is a 2 hr minimum for first time clients. 


Q: What is your deposit and cancellation policy?

A: Deposits are required of new clients and sent as soon as we’ve confirmed a session date and time. Amount will be determined by my discretion

*Deposit is deducted from total session tribute and non-refundable should you have to cancel.  

**Deposit must be sent via CashApp to $LGraceQ with no message in the note section. If you are unable to use CashApp, an Amazon e-gift card sent to for total deposit PLUS an additional $50 will be required. 

Cancellations: I understand some things are just out of our control--life happens and accidents occur. Please contact me as soon as possible, but know you will be forfeiting your deposit. 


Q: What is the best way to contact you?

A: By filling out my submission form. You’re going to have to make the first move, so make it a good one. Well-written and thoughtful requests get my immediate attention. The more succinct and clear you are the easier and faster it is for me to get back to you. Returning clients may directly email me, but if you haven't seen me in awhile it's best to read over my website again and send a new session request. 


Q: Where else can I find you online?

A: Stay connected with me and follow my kinky life on Twitter & Instagram!


Q: Where are you located? 

A: Sessions will either take place at a chic & luxurious private dungeon in the East Bay--right off the Bay Bridge (~15 mins from downtown SF), or at the wonderfully appointed La Maison de la Maitresse in SF proper. Pictures of the space are in the gallery to the right (or below in mobile view) >>>


Q: Do you do outcalls? 

A: Yes, I am available for outcall sessions in SF proper and beyond. 5 star hotels or professional dungeon spaces only. 


Q: Will you travel to me?

A: Yes, fly me to you or check the travel updates on my Twitter page for upcoming travel plans.


Q: Do you do multiple Mistress sessions?

A: Yes! I love playing with other Mistresses and providers. Feel free to suggest whom you’d like to join or I'm also happy to suggest providers depending on your interests. 

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